About Me

My photo
I have studied human relationships my entire life. Relationships are the glue of our world, the reason for our existence. My life has been and continues to be intense and full of big, sometimes hard lessons. I will share with you what I have gleaned and hopefully open up a forum for discussion about our humanity. This is the one thing that we all have in common. I want to help in whatever way I can. As a disclaimer I need to say that the advice or opinions that I express here are only that. At the end of the day we must all make our own choices and mistakes. We are all in this together. The more dialog takes place, the more we get to know about ourselves, eachother and this crazy place that is our world. Let's create some buzz! I will always be honest with you even if it stings a little.

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Anonymous said...

I feel like I've been in love and know what that feels like, but I have a long string of failed relationships behind me. How do I know if I'm actually in love or just scared of being alone? I find myself inextricably attracted this amazingly beautiful and present person. But how do I know that it's not just because I've been alone and am scared? How can I be sure I'm not about to cause more hurt and destruction?

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hello B Keeper,

I am in the process of divorcing after a very long unhappy marriage. I have noticed that many couples that were our friends act differently towards me since my separation. Specifically they seem stand-offish and aloof when we meet or speak. I still like them just as before but clearly the relationship has changed. What are your thoughts about how I might keep these friendships as vital as they were when I was married?